WHAT DO MODERN WOMEN NEED?

“ANH EM NƯƠNG TỰA” Đã có lúc mình từng nghĩ rằng mình sẽ không lập gia đình, chỉ ở vậy, muốn làm gì thì làm, không cần đến một người đàn ông bên mình. Nhưng sau này mình đổi ý và thấy rằng mình cũng muốn có một người để nương tựa. Một người để cùng mình ăn mừng lúc mình tốt nghiệp trường Y, tốt nghiệp nội trú, hay có được công việc đầu tiên là bác sĩ tại Mỹ. Một người để mình than phiền về những chuyện bực mình. Một người là bờ vai cho mình tựa vào những lúc mình cảm thấy mệt mỏi. Và thực tế là mình cũng có nơi nương tựa mười mấy năm qua.

Modern women.

University, medical school, hospital, work and the hustle and bustle of life once made me think that I would not get married, just stay there, do whatever I want, without needing a man by my side.

But later I changed my mind and found that I also wanted someone to rely on.

Someone to be with me Celebrate when you graduate Medical school, graduate from residency, or get your first job as a doctor in the US. Someone to complain about when you’re upset.
Someone who’s a shoulder to lean on when you feel tired.

And the reality is:

1. I HAVE A PLACE TO RELY ON FOR MANY YEARS

He is the person I can whine about, ask to open the lid of a box for me or hammer a nail, or help me eat a piece of fatty meat that I hate.

He is the person who pampers me. He is the one who fills the car, changes the oil, and washes the car. In the middle of the night when the baby cries, he is the one who wakes me up and puts me to sleep.

Whatever I crave, he will cook for me.
Every once in a while, he proactively invites me to go shopping to renovate my wardrobe because I’m “too lazy to shop.”

He does these things not because he can’t do it himself, but because he wants to do it.

Anh lái xe chở mình đi chơi
Anh lái xe chở mình đi chơi

2. INDEPENDENCE AND AUTONOMY OF WOMEN

You know, as a woman, the most important thing is for men to respect you.

Have someone to rely on if you want. But don’t let yourself depend on anyone, especially financially.

Because it’s a fact that men don’t like anyone who depends on them.

They want to protect women who they know don’t need their protection.
They want to give gifts to women they know can buy gifts for themselves.

So, be a person. women are independent and financially independent.

If you are a Vietnamese doctor and want to have financial independence through your medical profession, so you don’t have to depend on anyone, then watch this special webinar to the end. yours.

Please comment “yes” if the article is useful to you.

Dr. Christina Nguyen
The Phoenix Medical Academy.

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“ANH EM NƯƠNG TỰA” Đã có lúc mình từng nghĩ rằng mình sẽ không lập gia đình, chỉ ở vậy, muốn làm gì thì làm, không cần đến một người đàn ông bên mình. Nhưng sau này mình đổi ý và thấy rằng mình cũng muốn có một người để nương tựa. Một người để cùng mình ăn mừng lúc mình tốt nghiệp trường Y, tốt nghiệp nội trú, hay có được công việc đầu tiên là bác sĩ tại Mỹ. Một người để mình than phiền về những chuyện bực mình. Một người là bờ vai cho mình tựa vào những lúc mình cảm thấy mệt mỏi. Và thực tế là mình cũng có nơi nương tựa mười mấy năm qua.

Modern women.

University, medical school, hospital, work and the hustle and bustle of life once made me think that I would not get married, just stay there, do whatever I want, without needing a man by my side.

But later I changed my mind and found that I also wanted someone to rely on.

Someone to be with me Celebrate when you graduate Medical school, graduate from residency, or get your first job as a doctor in the US. Someone to complain about when you’re upset.
Someone who’s a shoulder to lean on when you feel tired.

And the reality is:

1. I HAVE A PLACE TO RELY ON FOR MANY YEARS

He is the person I can whine about, ask to open the lid of a box for me or hammer a nail, or help me eat a piece of fatty meat that I hate.

He is the person who pampers me. He is the one who fills the car, changes the oil, and washes the car. In the middle of the night when the baby cries, he is the one who wakes me up and puts me to sleep.

Whatever I crave, he will cook for me.
Every once in a while, he proactively invites me to go shopping to renovate my wardrobe because I’m “too lazy to shop.”

He does these things not because he can’t do it himself, but because he wants to do it.

Anh lái xe chở mình đi chơi
Anh lái xe chở mình đi chơi

2. INDEPENDENCE AND AUTONOMY OF WOMEN

You know, as a woman, the most important thing is for men to respect you.

Have someone to rely on if you want. But don’t let yourself depend on anyone, especially financially.

Because it’s a fact that men don’t like anyone who depends on them.

They want to protect women who they know don’t need their protection.
They want to give gifts to women they know can buy gifts for themselves.

So, be a person. women are independent and financially independent.

If you are a Vietnamese doctor and want to have financial independence through your medical profession, so you don’t have to depend on anyone, then watch this special webinar to the end. yours.

Please comment “yes” if the article is useful to you.

Dr. Christina Nguyen
The Phoenix Medical Academy.

If you found this article meaningful, please share it with others!

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BECOME A DOCTOR IN THE U.S.

Would you like to learn how to communicate with patients in English to U.S. medical standards, explore the mindset and skills needed to succeed in medicine in America, or learn more about life as a doctor in the U.S.?

If you found this article helpful, please share it with others!

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 Dr. Christina Nguyen
Family Doctor in the U.S.

Years ago, when I sat down to write my application essay for the Bill Gates scholarship, I wrote about the dream of becoming a doctor who could help people across languages and cultures. That journey eventually led me to practice family medicine in the United States and to build The Phoenix Medical Academy — so students and immigrant families can find clearer guidance on studying medicine, residency, and life in America.

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